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Hmm... I do mean burden in a negative context, so I wouldn't classify "efforts that you don't mind making" as "burdens"

There's also a distinction between "effort" as in "an action towards a goal" and "effort" as in "something difficult".

When I said "if it's not effortless, it's a burden" I meant "if it's difficult, it's a burden"

Having flexibility or making plans to meet our friends may take effort, but if it doesn't feel like efforting, it's not a burden in my book

All in all, I think we have pretty much the same opinion 😇 So yeah, what you said does make sense to me, our definitions are just a lil mismatched!

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